The problem with your post(ure) is that it sounds like the very core of what the feminists fights to end: People, men mostly because of how our society is constructed, dictating what women are supposed to like, to wear, to do as a career… It’s wrong just like assuming/saying some other kind of stereotype based on gender, color, or anything else.
Perhaps your post could be more acceptable if you used “some women like that” when referring to aspects that are subjective to each individual instead of assuming/using “all women/men…”
That’s all.
Warning might be quote mine here.
This goes both way, men are told how to act and what jobs they can have or what clothes to wear.
I wonder if the problem is not social but mental. Let us say in hypothetical, women see themselves as victims or as weak because of something that they are taught (gender/women’s studies) then because they think they can not, then they do not and then are reinforced in this mindset by something (echo chambers) so that they think that as long as they are weak they can complain but not have to take action. An example of this is video games, In order to fix the gender gap more girls should play video games or more men have to quit. Neither side will do something so the problem persists. I guess the same can be said of any career path but this is only a theory.
Yeah sure, i was just explaining what’s wrong with the post in question when it is said that “…women like that…”.
Machism goes on a long road to opress and dictate how men are supposed to behave too, for example:
- Men don’t cry.
- Men don’t play with dolls.
- Men must support the house and their wives.
And it goes on and on…
Actually the percentage of gamers who are female tends to be 40% or higher.
These discussions become useless when people attempt to lump an entire gender behind a personality. “Men do ______,” “women think that _______.” Might as well say that “humans like anchovies.”
They do, the pizza menu doesn’t lie @Lyya!
I dont know u personally so nope
I cant even imagine how watching a 10 min movie, which rather gives you an avalanche of laugh can have a bad influence on serious relationship ?? For me its like absolutely opposite. You prolly shouldnt do that if you are not in a “serious” relationship.
And to be clear, what I had in mind saying porn, was some light stuff, more funny than serious. Scenes like in plenty of the normal movies now. Not the movies from the dark side of the Internet. These should never exist.
So I just wonder, when u watch a movie and there is a scene adressed to the adults you guys leave the room? Otherwise your relationship will not be honest anymore?
Allow partner to do something? What do you mean by that? Is that you guys ask eachother if you can do some stuff and await for allowance? I feel like you have planted a sick curiosity inside of me. Something like: Damn what he/she wanna do what needs acceptance
Anyway, the consensus, people do whatever they want to do, together or alone. Its their business. And as long as it isnt against the law and doesnt do any charm shouldnt be judged by anyone.
He should really return that videotape.
PS: all men lie about this.
I dont give a shit about self proclaimed feminists who even with their elite women studies fail to grasp actual feminism. Complaining about jokeish posts definately cant be it now can it.
Also never see men complain about the unrealistic standards of annointed one and winter imp, it takes steroids to look like the first and alot of feminism to look like the second.
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And yet, you waste your “precious” time coming here just to talk utter nonsense and jokes because you feel your liberty to do it so is more important than the liberty of others that want to discuss something.
The liberty to do so is always more important than offense. But if you need safe space you can always walk away from the monitor or scroll past my visciously hurtful and unsafe comments.
Not at all, you as the offender is the one to blame by your own behavior. If you have nothing constructive to add to this topic you can just leave it alone.
Oh boy im an “offender” for making a joke please go on.
that is an over generalization. [quote=“wskill, post:405, topic:11906”]
I dont give a shit about self proclaimed feminists
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The definition of feminism is not even followed by feminists. I know this mostly because the definition includes fighting for men’s rights but feminists do not fight for men’s rights.
I will stretch my good will and say that you must read again my replies, your joke struck on a nerve of people that don’t want to joke about the matter at hand. About being offensive the generalizations like…
…are indeed offensive and unnecessary just like correlating the uggliness of Winter Imp as a side effect of feminism in a clear attempt to be detrimental to the feminists:
If you don’t see anything wrong with your posts now that i explained it…
That was actually my point.
No i dont see anything wrong with those posts i even find them funny myself.
p.s. stop attractivenessshaming winter imp.
This one has more or less run its course, as the signal-to-noise ratio has plummeted precipitously. I trust the developers have gathered insight from the insightful comments and ignored those without merit.