# Private chat with one guild mate **URL:** \ **Category:** Uncategorized\ **Created:** [August 8, 2020, 3:26pm UTC](https://community.gemsofwar.com/t/private-chat-with-one-guild-mate/65323 "2020-08-08T15:26:13Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 13\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Zuzu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/ce73a5/32.png) [@Zuzu](https://community.gemsofwar.com/u/Zuzu)\ **Post date:** [August 8, 2020, 3:26pm UTC](https://community.gemsofwar.com/t/private-chat-with-one-guild-mate/65323/1 "2020-08-08T15:26:13Z")
I can’t use discord so that’s not an answer. I need to communicate with one member but I want to do it so that none of the other members know what is said. If anyone has any ideas thanks in advance for your time. ---
**Author:** ![Jonathan](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/flex019/user_avatar/community.gemsofwar.com/jonathan/32/66724_2.png) [@Jonathan](https://community.gemsofwar.com/u/Jonathan)\ **Post date:** [August 8, 2020, 3:27pm UTC](https://community.gemsofwar.com/t/private-chat-with-one-guild-mate/65323/2 "2020-08-08T15:27:28Z")
~~Sounds pretty suspicious, tbh!!~~ Sorry, that was rude and lazy of me. Ty for responding gracefully. ---
**Author:** ![Noctis](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/flex019/user_avatar/community.gemsofwar.com/noctis/32/68105_2.png) [@Noctis](https://community.gemsofwar.com/u/Noctis)\ **Post date:** [August 8, 2020, 3:38pm UTC](https://community.gemsofwar.com/t/private-chat-with-one-guild-mate/65323/3 "2020-08-08T15:38:28Z")
Post the message in guild chat, then once the guild member receives the message use Mind Eater (obtainable by spending chaos shards in Illithia) to wipe the memory of everyone else in the guild so they don’t remember seeing the message. Now a lot of you might be thinking “hold on that doesn’t work.” Well it does work, you just don’t remember. ---
**Author:** ![Zuzu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/ce73a5/32.png) [@Zuzu](https://community.gemsofwar.com/u/Zuzu)\ **Post date:** [August 8, 2020, 3:42pm UTC](https://community.gemsofwar.com/t/private-chat-with-one-guild-mate/65323/4 "2020-08-08T15:42:54Z")
Not really I want to ask if he was willing to take on a bit of the guilmaster duties when I am not on as our time zones are night and day literally. I just don’t want to: B: don’t want to have hurt feelings from the others ---
**Author:** ![Denthegod](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/flex019/user_avatar/community.gemsofwar.com/denthegod/32/69138_2.png) [@Denthegod](https://community.gemsofwar.com/u/Denthegod)\ **Post date:** [August 8, 2020, 3:44pm UTC](https://community.gemsofwar.com/t/private-chat-with-one-guild-mate/65323/5 "2020-08-08T15:44:41Z")
If you use PS4 you can just use the PS4 msg system. I think Xbox live got that too. I would think pc has something like that but for everything else I’m not too sure. ---
**Author:** ![awryan](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/flex019/user_avatar/community.gemsofwar.com/awryan/32/74650_2.png) [@awryan](https://community.gemsofwar.com/u/awryan)\ **Post date:** [August 8, 2020, 4:29pm UTC](https://community.gemsofwar.com/t/private-chat-with-one-guild-mate/65323/6 "2020-08-08T16:29:43Z")
Have him or her make a forums account. In the top right you’ll see an option to send messages. ---
**Author:** ![Magnusimus](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/flex019/user_avatar/community.gemsofwar.com/magnusimus/32/50652_2.png) [@Magnusimus](https://community.gemsofwar.com/u/Magnusimus)\ **Post date:** [August 8, 2020, 6:41pm UTC](https://community.gemsofwar.com/t/private-chat-with-one-guild-mate/65323/7 "2020-08-08T18:41:13Z")
The nice thing about awryan’s suggestion, too, is that you can keep the “favoritism” concern at bay this way, by just encouraging all of your members to join the forum and advocate your guild’s interests. ---
**Author:** ![Zuzu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/ce73a5/32.png) [@Zuzu](https://community.gemsofwar.com/u/Zuzu)\ **Post date:** [August 8, 2020, 7:56pm UTC](https://community.gemsofwar.com/t/private-chat-with-one-guild-mate/65323/8 "2020-08-08T19:56:18Z")
Great thought. Thanks ---
**Author:** ![RiverSong](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/flex019/user_avatar/community.gemsofwar.com/riversong/32/2089_2.png) [@RiverSong](https://community.gemsofwar.com/u/RiverSong)\ **Post date:** [August 8, 2020, 9:47pm UTC](https://community.gemsofwar.com/t/private-chat-with-one-guild-mate/65323/9 "2020-08-08T21:47:42Z")
MIB flashy thingy. ---
**Author:** ![ChunkyMono](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/flex019/user_avatar/community.gemsofwar.com/chunkymono/32/69308_2.png) [@ChunkyMono](https://community.gemsofwar.com/u/ChunkyMono)\ **Post date:** [August 9, 2020, 4:50am UTC](https://community.gemsofwar.com/t/private-chat-with-one-guild-mate/65323/10 "2020-08-09T04:50:38Z")
I hate it when my alt tries to private message me…“I don’t like you, bruh. That’s why I made you my alt, and not my main. Take the hint, and leave me alone”. Things were a lot quieter when it was a one guild mate guild. ---
**Author:** ![RiverSong](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/flex019/user_avatar/community.gemsofwar.com/riversong/32/2089_2.png) [@RiverSong](https://community.gemsofwar.com/u/RiverSong)\ **Post date:** [August 9, 2020, 10:03pm UTC](https://community.gemsofwar.com/t/private-chat-with-one-guild-mate/65323/11 "2020-08-09T22:03:57Z")
I bet you get special messages from the TV, too. 🤣 ---
**Author:** ![Lorien1973](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/flex019/user_avatar/community.gemsofwar.com/lorien1973/32/75546_2.png) [@Lorien1973](https://community.gemsofwar.com/u/Lorien1973)\ **Post date:** [August 9, 2020, 10:13pm UTC](https://community.gemsofwar.com/t/private-chat-with-one-guild-mate/65323/12 "2020-08-09T22:13:33Z")
You’re not an orc, but a two headed ogre! ---
**Author:** ![ChunkyMono](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/flex019/user_avatar/community.gemsofwar.com/chunkymono/32/69308_2.png) [@ChunkyMono](https://community.gemsofwar.com/u/ChunkyMono)\ **Post date:** [August 10, 2020, 5:10am UTC](https://community.gemsofwar.com/t/private-chat-with-one-guild-mate/65323/13 "2020-08-10T05:10:15Z")
Like with most Ogre Magi, our guild chat frequently devolves into which of us possess the brain… Me: “We have a brain now. I have it” Alt: “No I do” It has yet to be confirmed either of us do. As Curly said, ‘I try to think, but nothing happens’. (And my TV and I are not on speaking terms ever since I caught it conspiring with my toaster to burn my waffles. I hates technology).