# Guild Wars and sisters guilds

**URL:** <https://community.gemsofwar.com/t/guild-wars-and-sisters-guilds/23674>\
**Category:** Archive\
**Created:** [May 7, 2017, 9:16am UTC](https://community.gemsofwar.com/t/guild-wars-and-sisters-guilds/23674 "2017-05-07T09:16:11Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Vangor](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/flex019/user_avatar/community.gemsofwar.com/vangor/32/31404_2.png) [@Vangor](https://community.gemsofwar.com/u/Vangor)\
**Post date:** [May 10, 2017, 3:13pm UTC](https://community.gemsofwar.com/t/guild-wars-and-sisters-guilds/23674/310 "2017-05-10T15:13:32Z")

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> [@efh313](#):
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> efh313 looks at the rabbit hole… turns to walk away… but instead runs full speed back and dives in

This made me lolololol and simultaneously yell NOOOOO DON’T DO IT!

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**Author:** ![Zippity](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/flex019/user_avatar/community.gemsofwar.com/zippity/32/20287_2.png) [@Zippity](https://community.gemsofwar.com/u/Zippity)\
**Post date:** [May 10, 2017, 3:14pm UTC](https://community.gemsofwar.com/t/guild-wars-and-sisters-guilds/23674/311 "2017-05-10T15:14:48Z")

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> [@Vangor](#):
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> P.S. did i mention beer?

Only a couple of times… 🍺

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**Author:** ![Vangor](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/flex019/user_avatar/community.gemsofwar.com/vangor/32/31404_2.png) [@Vangor](https://community.gemsofwar.com/u/Vangor)\
**Post date:** [May 10, 2017, 3:15pm UTC](https://community.gemsofwar.com/t/guild-wars-and-sisters-guilds/23674/312 "2017-05-10T15:15:41Z")

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Thats cuz i really like beer😎

Ok ill start…

Kumbaya my Lord, kumbaya  
Kumbaya my Lord, kumbaya  
Kumbaya my Lord, kumbaya  
Oh Lord, kumbaya

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**Author:** ![Whiskeyjack](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/flex019/user_avatar/community.gemsofwar.com/whiskeyjack/32/65850_2.png) [@Whiskeyjack](https://community.gemsofwar.com/u/Whiskeyjack)\
**Post date:** [May 10, 2017, 3:17pm UTC](https://community.gemsofwar.com/t/guild-wars-and-sisters-guilds/23674/313 "2017-05-10T15:17:21Z")

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I’m going to ask Salty to add “kumbaya bombing” to the list of no-nos in the community guidelines 😁

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**Author:** ![ogunther](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/flex019/user_avatar/community.gemsofwar.com/ogunther/32/1464_2.png) [@ogunther](https://community.gemsofwar.com/u/ogunther)\
**Post date:** [May 10, 2017, 3:17pm UTC](https://community.gemsofwar.com/t/guild-wars-and-sisters-guilds/23674/314 "2017-05-10T15:17:24Z")

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> [@Dorgath](#):
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> ogunther becoming increasingly aggressive to the point of name-calling

Please show me where I did any name calling and I’ll gladly apologize to @yonizaf for it.

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**Author:** ![Ashasekayi](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/flex019/user_avatar/community.gemsofwar.com/ashasekayi/32/61090_2.png) [@Ashasekayi](https://community.gemsofwar.com/u/Ashasekayi)\
**Post date:** [May 10, 2017, 3:17pm UTC](https://community.gemsofwar.com/t/guild-wars-and-sisters-guilds/23674/315 "2017-05-10T15:17:55Z")

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@efh313 should sing it on video. 😼

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**Author:** ![Zippity](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/flex019/user_avatar/community.gemsofwar.com/zippity/32/20287_2.png) [@Zippity](https://community.gemsofwar.com/u/Zippity)\
**Post date:** [May 10, 2017, 3:23pm UTC](https://community.gemsofwar.com/t/guild-wars-and-sisters-guilds/23674/316 "2017-05-10T15:23:13Z")

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> [@ogunther](#):
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> So which is it? Are you lying or incompetent?

Not quite name calling, but it definitely doesn’t help. I just sometimes wish the forum had more of an “agree to disagree” attitude and drop it at that.

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**Author:** ![Vangor](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/flex019/user_avatar/community.gemsofwar.com/vangor/32/31404_2.png) [@Vangor](https://community.gemsofwar.com/u/Vangor)\
**Post date:** [May 10, 2017, 3:23pm UTC](https://community.gemsofwar.com/t/guild-wars-and-sisters-guilds/23674/317 "2017-05-10T15:23:19Z")

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@Ashasekayi lets make a formal request of @efh313

In remembrance of this soon to be locked thread…

@Whiskeyjack 😐

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**Author:** ![efh313](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/flex019/user_avatar/community.gemsofwar.com/efh313/32/34349_2.png) [@efh313](https://community.gemsofwar.com/u/efh313)\
**Post date:** [May 10, 2017, 3:25pm UTC](https://community.gemsofwar.com/t/guild-wars-and-sisters-guilds/23674/318 "2017-05-10T15:25:34Z")

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Is this my first GoW commission? 🤑

Also are you talking about Kumbya or a parody paraphrasing this thread? 😮

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**Author:** ![Vangor](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/flex019/user_avatar/community.gemsofwar.com/vangor/32/31404_2.png) [@Vangor](https://community.gemsofwar.com/u/Vangor)\
**Post date:** [May 10, 2017, 3:26pm UTC](https://community.gemsofwar.com/t/guild-wars-and-sisters-guilds/23674/319 "2017-05-10T15:26:08Z")

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Both! A parody of kumbaya about this thread

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**Author:** ![Vangor](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/flex019/user_avatar/community.gemsofwar.com/vangor/32/31404_2.png) [@Vangor](https://community.gemsofwar.com/u/Vangor)\
**Post date:** [May 10, 2017, 3:28pm UTC](https://community.gemsofwar.com/t/guild-wars-and-sisters-guilds/23674/320 "2017-05-10T15:28:22Z")

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Drat! Out of likes already… Smh

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**Author:** ![ogunther](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/flex019/user_avatar/community.gemsofwar.com/ogunther/32/1464_2.png) [@ogunther](https://community.gemsofwar.com/u/ogunther)\
**Post date:** [May 10, 2017, 3:29pm UTC](https://community.gemsofwar.com/t/guild-wars-and-sisters-guilds/23674/321 "2017-05-10T15:29:31Z")

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Seriously? That’s what’s got people up in arms? I wouldn’t call that name calling but perhaps I’m thicker skinned than some.

@yonizaf - If I offended you by making that statement then please accept my sincere apologies. While I don’t take back my the point I was trying to make, it was never my intent to name call or give the feeling that’s what I was doing. For that I am sorry and hope that’s not how you took it.

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**Author:** ![efh313](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/flex019/user_avatar/community.gemsofwar.com/efh313/32/34349_2.png) [@efh313](https://community.gemsofwar.com/u/efh313)\
**Post date:** [May 10, 2017, 3:33pm UTC](https://community.gemsofwar.com/t/guild-wars-and-sisters-guilds/23674/322 "2017-05-10T15:33:45Z")

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> [@ogunther](#):
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> perhaps I’m thicker skinned than some.

YOU ARE A TREE FOR CRYIN’ OUT LOUD!!! 😱  
Of course you’re thicker skinned then most…  
I mean… 😕  
I… 😖  
You… 😰  
Ah… 😡  
😴

😂

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**Author:** ![Whiskeyjack](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/flex019/user_avatar/community.gemsofwar.com/whiskeyjack/32/65850_2.png) [@Whiskeyjack](https://community.gemsofwar.com/u/Whiskeyjack)\
**Post date:** [May 10, 2017, 3:34pm UTC](https://community.gemsofwar.com/t/guild-wars-and-sisters-guilds/23674/323 "2017-05-10T15:34:58Z")

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> [@Vangor](#):
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> A parody of kumbaya

I dunno, the original lyrics work quite well…

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**Author:** ![efh313](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/flex019/user_avatar/community.gemsofwar.com/efh313/32/34349_2.png) [@efh313](https://community.gemsofwar.com/u/efh313)\
**Post date:** [May 10, 2017, 3:38pm UTC](https://community.gemsofwar.com/t/guild-wars-and-sisters-guilds/23674/324 "2017-05-10T15:38:59Z")

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Kumbya translates to “Come by here” in English…

The only change I would make would be:

Kumbya Nimhain, Kumbya  
Kumbya Nimhain, Kumbya  
Kumbya Nimhain, Kumbya  
Nimhain, Kumbya

😉

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**Author:** ![Vangor](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/flex019/user_avatar/community.gemsofwar.com/vangor/32/31404_2.png) [@Vangor](https://community.gemsofwar.com/u/Vangor)\
**Post date:** [May 10, 2017, 3:43pm UTC](https://community.gemsofwar.com/t/guild-wars-and-sisters-guilds/23674/325 "2017-05-10T15:43:02Z")

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Except replace the last kumbaya with “lock this thread” lol

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**Author:** ![Dorgath](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/dfb087/32.png) [@Dorgath](https://community.gemsofwar.com/u/Dorgath)\
**Post date:** [May 10, 2017, 4:02pm UTC](https://community.gemsofwar.com/t/guild-wars-and-sisters-guilds/23674/326 "2017-05-10T16:02:24Z")

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> [@ogunther](#):
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> Please show me where I did any name calling and I’ll gladly apologize to @yonizaf for it.

I’m not asking for an apology on yonizaf’s behalf. 🙂 But yeah, it was pretty much that post but also everything about it:

> [@ogunther](#):
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> So which is it? Are you lying or incompetent? Either way I suggest you stop, you’re not going to win this argument because you’re, at best, wrong or you’re being purposefully duplicitous. Either way I don’t have anything further to discuss with you on this topic as I just handed you your ass. mic drop

It’s not _explicit_ name-calling, for sure, but giving two options of being a liar or incompetent (and non-compliments are pretty much name-calling, in my view; I mean it’s the opposite!) is pretty much it. Once someone’s character is called into question, it becomes name-calling.

And the rest of it is arrogance (“you’re not going to win this argument because…”) and cocky (“I just handed you your ass”). I’m not asking you to change since that’s who you are - what I’m saying is that myself (and perhaps the silent others) doesn’t feel like starting a discussion with someone who displays that attitude and “shouts down” the other. It just doesn’t serve any purpose.

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**Author:** ![ogunther](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/flex019/user_avatar/community.gemsofwar.com/ogunther/32/1464_2.png) [@ogunther](https://community.gemsofwar.com/u/ogunther)\
**Post date:** [May 10, 2017, 4:08pm UTC](https://community.gemsofwar.com/t/guild-wars-and-sisters-guilds/23674/327 "2017-05-10T16:08:48Z")

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> [@Dorgath](#):
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> It’s not explicit name-calling, for sure, but giving two options of being a liar or incompetent (and non-compliments are pretty much name-calling, in my view; I mean it’s the opposite!) is pretty much it. Once someone’s character is called into question, it becomes name-calling.
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> And the rest of it is arrogance (“you’re not going to win this argument because…”) and cocky (“I just handed you your ass”). I’m not asking you to change since that’s who you are - what I’m saying is that myself (and perhaps the silent others) doesn’t feel like starting a discussion with someone who displays that attitude and “shouts down” the other. It just doesn’t serve any purpose.

Wait so let me get this straight, I’m name calling for what I said but you can call me arrogant and cocky? That’s rich. Maybe take your own advice before getting on that high horse and preaching to others.

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**Author:** ![Vangor](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/flex019/user_avatar/community.gemsofwar.com/vangor/32/31404_2.png) [@Vangor](https://community.gemsofwar.com/u/Vangor)\
**Post date:** [May 10, 2017, 4:13pm UTC](https://community.gemsofwar.com/t/guild-wars-and-sisters-guilds/23674/328 "2017-05-10T16:13:48Z")

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@ogunther let it go brudda… Let it go

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**Author:** ![Dorgath](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/dfb087/32.png) [@Dorgath](https://community.gemsofwar.com/u/Dorgath)\
**Post date:** [May 10, 2017, 4:19pm UTC](https://community.gemsofwar.com/t/guild-wars-and-sisters-guilds/23674/329 "2017-05-10T16:19:56Z")

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LOL. I never said _I_ didn’t name-call. And that no one wanted to discuss things with me because of it.

However, I would argue I was ascribing descriptors to your _statements_, not you (and perhaps I should have clarified the next sentence as “I’m not asking you to change your style of writing”). Does writing statements that come off as arrogant and cocky mean that the writer himself are those things? Maybe, maybe not… I don’t know you personally so can’t say.

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